Enneagram Levels of Development
Each Enneagram type manifests across nine levels of psychological health. The healthy levels (1-3) show the type at its best, the average levels (4-6) represent typical functioning with increasing stress, and the unhealthy levels (7-9) show the type under severe duress.
Based on the work of Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. I originally encountered these charts through the Enneagram Academy.
The Reformer
Social Role: The Educator
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Wise, humane, noble, impeccable, uplifting, kind, generous, pure
Internal Attitudes
Accepting, life-affirming, hopeful, serene, accept ambiguity, truly realistic
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they are in a position to judge anything objectively
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being "bad", corrupt, evil, defective (imbalanced)
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Reasonable, sensible, have integrity, moderate, prudent, modest, objective
Internal Attitudes
Evaluating, conscientious, moral, rational, discerning, composed, values-oriented
Desires
Basic Desire: To be good, to have integrity, to be in balance with everything
Fear
Secondary Fear: That their subjective feelings and impulses will lead them astray (impair their reason), their integrity will be tarnished
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Responsible, truthful, self-disciplined, just, fair, teach by example, articulate, civilized, seek excellence, delay gratification
Internal Attitudes
Principled, ethical, impartial, purposeful, have convictions, sense of mission, impassioned, tolerant, committed
Desires
Secondary Desire: To align themselves with their conscience and reason
Fear
That their principles are not having enough effect (others are indifferent)
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Striving, reforming, debating, "pointing out", explaining, remedying, advocating, refined, longing
Internal Attitudes
Obligated, idealistic, driven, "should" & "must", serious, have certainty, "making progress", elitist, creating expectations
Desires
To "fix"/improve themselves and their world
Fear
That they will be condemned for deviating from their own ideals
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Orderly, impersonal, opinionated, rigid, methodical, punctual, brusque/"short", precise/"clipped", moody
Internal Attitudes
Self-controlled, impatient, irritable, "narrow"/dry, scrupulous, feel guilty, emotionally constricted, self-critical, melancholy
Desires
That everything in their lives be consistent with their ideals
Fear
That others will "mess up" the order and balance they have achieved
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Critical, correcting, argumentative, sarcastic, moralizing, workaholic, badgering, strident, strict, self-indulgent
Internal Attitudes
Judgmental, resentful, perfectionistic, uncompromising, unsympathetic, condescending, picky, demanding, stern, disapproving, self-pitying
Desires
To reproach themselves and others for not meeting their ideals/standards
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That their ideals are actually wrong
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Inflexible, vitriolic, no negotiations, closed-minded, unreasonable, severe, harsh, alienated
Internal Attitudes
Self-righteous, rationalizing, masochistic, bitter, depressive, absolutistic, intolerant, misanthropic, hateful
Desires
To justify themselves and silence criticism (from self and others)
Fear
That they are becoming irrational
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Contradictory, hypocritical, fetishistic, untruthful, arbitrary, corrupt, self-flagellating
Internal Attitudes
Obsessive, compulsive, fixated, unforgiving, enraged, feel "possessed", displacing, tormented
Desires
To consciously control their unconscious/irrational impulses
Fear
That they are losing all control of themselves
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Punishing, cruel, wrathful, attacking, self-mutilating, suicidal, sadistic, self-destructive
Internal Attitudes
Condemnatory, hateful, merciless, furious, hysterical, despairing
Desires
To rid themselves of the apparent cause(s) of their obsessions and emotional disorder
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: that they are corrupted, "evil," and defective/imbalanced
The Helper
Social Role: The Special Friend
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Loving, Unconditionally, joyous, radiant, truly charitable, constant, "tough love"
Internal Attitudes
Self-Nurturing, altruistic, disinterested, unselfish, humble, gracious
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they are not allowed to take care of themselves and their own needs
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being loveless, of being without love
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Loving, caring, selfless, thoughtful, warm-hearted, passionate, free-spirited, feeling
Internal Attitudes
Empathetic, concerned, other-oriented, forgiving, compassionate, sincere, non-verbal, intuitive capacities
Desires
Basic Desire: To feel loved (and to feel like a source of love)
Fear
Secondary Fear: That their own needs and negative feelings will harm their relationships
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Giving, generous, encouraging, helpful, expressive, serving, guiding
Internal Attitudes
Supportive, appreciative, sympathetic, nurturing, dedicated, admiring, affectionate
Desires
Secondary Desire: To do good things for others (to reinforce their positive feelings and self-image)
Fear
That whatever they have been doing for others is not enough to gain their love (others will not come to them, they must go out more to others)
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
People-Pleasing, demonstrative, ingratiating, approving, flattering, flirtatious, cultivating, "sharing", persuasive
Internal Attitudes
Solicitous, sentimental, well-intentioned, effusive, familiar, yearning, need physical contact, religious/psychic, no-nonsense
Desires
To be wanted—to be close to others
Fear
That the people they love will love someone else more than them
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Intrusive, "intimate", accosting, unwanted advice, hovering, "checking in", seductive, gossiping, enabling, dominating
Internal Attitudes
Possessive, "self-sacrificing", "rescuer", ulterior motives, classic codependency, "stuffing feelings", thin-skinned, jealous, worrying, self-centered
Desires
To be needed—to make themselves necessary to others
Fear
That they and their help are being taken for granted
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Overbearing, patronizing, high-handed, insincere, indiscreet, complaining/martyr, taking credit, undermining
Internal Attitudes
Self-Important, self-satisfied, sanctimonious, presumptuous, self-congratulatory, hypochondriacal, vainglorious, terms of endearment, confrontational
Desires
To be acknowledged, to have their virtue and goodness recognized
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That they are driving others away
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Manipulative, guilt-instilling, smothering, discouraging, eating disorder, somatizing, blaming, undermining, clinging, violent
Internal Attitudes
Self-Serving, self-deceptive, rationalizing, self-justifying, histrionic, despondent, enraged, denying, terror of abandonment, vengeful
Desires
To hold onto people at all costs (while maintaining the belief that they haven't done anything wrong or selfish)
Fear
That they have permanently estranged their loved ones
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Coercive, indiscriminate, sexually act-out, voracious, reckless, molesting, predatory
Internal Attitudes
Entitled, insatiable, desperate, obsessive "love", heartbroken, demand repayment, no boundaries
Desires
To get love from anyone in any way they can
Fear
That they are bad, selfish and have violated others
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Parasitic, burdensome, diseased, broken down, invalids, destructive
Internal Attitudes
Feel Victimized, feel abused, psychosomatic disorders, emotionally consumed, deeply bitter, remorseless
Desires
To vindicate themselves by falling apart and suffering
Fear
Basic Fear is realized: they have become unwanted and unlovable
The Achiever
Social Role: The Best
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Authentic, genuine, affecting, esteemed, self-deprecatory, benevolent
Internal Attitudes
Inner-Directed, self-accepting, modest, contented, tender, charitable
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that their value is dependent on their accomplishments and the positive regard of others
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being worthless
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Outstanding, admirable, effective, worthwhile, "unlimited potential", gracious, charming, desirable
Internal Attitudes
Adaptable, other-directed, realistic, purposeful, self-assured, poised, magnetic, attractive
Desires
Basic Desire: To feel valuable and worthwhile
Fear
Secondary Fear: That they will be rejected (of disappointing others by being less than outstanding)
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Self-Improving, competent, motivating, industrious, well-adjusted, role models, accomplishing, communicators
Internal Attitudes
Goal-Oriented, ambitious, confident, high-spirited, persistent, self-investing, focused, diligent
Desires
Secondary Desire: To develop themselves (to be "all that they can be")
Fear
Of falling behind, of being over-shadowed by others
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Performing, achieving, career-oriented, self-enhancing, diplomatic, presentable, organized, constant doing, conforming
Internal Attitudes
Driven, success-oriented, status-conscious, competitive, seeking recognition, comparing, exclusive, being "on", conciliatory
Desires
To distinguish themselves from others; to be noticed, valued by others
Fear
Of losing the positive regard of others
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Expedient, meet expectations, efficient, chameleonic, appropriate, packaged, professional, "friendly", pragmatic, complacent
Internal Attitudes
Image-Conscious, "rehearsed", premeditated, emotionally detached, self-doubting, intimacy problems, impersonal, "reading" others, disengaged
Desires
To create a favorable impression of themselves (to impress)
Fear
That others will see through them—they will be humiliated, lose face
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Self-Promoting, "showing off", inflating accomplishments, openly competitive, seductive, giving attitude, mocking/sneering, placating
Internal Attitudes
Grandiose, self-involved, narcissistic, arrogant, contemptuous, secretly needy, jealous, unrealistic
Desires
To convince themselves and others of the reality of their image
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That they are failing, that their claims are empty, fraudulent
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Deceptive, concealing, "cutting corners", surreptitious, detracting, divisive, opportunistic, inadequate
Internal Attitudes
Unprincipled, covetous, hostile, inner emptiness, affectless, feel insignificant, "nothing inside", numb
Desires
To preserve the illusion that they are still superior, still okay
Fear
Of being caught, of losing any reason for others to think well of them (that there is nothing about them people will admire)
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Exploitative, self-prostituting, scheming, pathological lying, sabotaging, betraying, depersonalized
Internal Attitudes
Duplicitous, suppressed panic, remorseless, desperate, feel cornered, detached from self, dissociated
Desires
To do whatever is necessary to support their false claims (without being found out)
Fear
That their falseness and emptiness will be exposed—they will be ruined
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Relentless, vicious, sadistic, remorseless, hiding pathology, externally blank, fragmented
Internal Attitudes
Monomaniacal, psychopathic, malicious, vengeful, numb, empty, self-abandoning
Desires
To destroy whoever or whatever threatens them or reminds them of what they lack
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they are rejected as worthless
The Individualist
Social Role: The Mysterious One / The Special Case
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Life-Enhancing, redemptive, inspired, revelatory, engaged, truly original
Internal Attitudes
Life-Embracing, self-renewing, revitalized, spontaneous, connected, bountiful, have equanimity
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they are more inherently flawed than others—that they are missing something that others have
Fear
Basic Fear: That they have no identity or personal significance
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Sensitive, unique, different, gentle, quiet, deep, honest with self, passionate
Internal Attitudes
Introspective, self-aware, intuitive, impressionable, emotional, feeling-oriented, self-reflecting
Desires
Basic Desire: To find themselves and their significance (to create an identity out of their inner experience)
Fear
Secondary Fear: Of being dull, ordinary, and indistinguishable: of being without feelings
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Creative, personal/universal, expressive, subtle, eloquent, humane, witty
Internal Attitudes
Self-Revealing, accessible, emotionally strong, congruent, dedicated, inner-directed, authentic
Desires
Secondary Desire: To express their individuality to themselves and others (through creative action)
Fear
That their changing feelings won't sustain them and their creativity
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Dramatizing, special, exotic, individualistic, symbolic, create atmosphere, indirect, "elegant"/arch, demonstrative
Internal Attitudes
Fantasizing, romanticizing, infatuated, aesthetic, idealizing, past-oriented, creating expectations, sentimental
Desires
To cultivate and prolong selected feelings (Fantasy Self)
Fear
That others will not see them or understand them (their feelings and needs will not be recognized)
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Temperamental, withholding, moody, aloof, hypersensitive, brooding, sulking, precious/mannered, "mysterious", uninvolved, hovering
Internal Attitudes
Self-Absorbed, self-referential, self-conscious, melancholy, vulnerable, feel misunderstood, self-doubting, uninterested, possessive
Desires
To be reassured of others' interest and concern for them (by playing "hard to get")
Fear
That life's demands will force them to give up their Fantasy Self (others will not rescue them)
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Decadent, unproductive, pretentious, emotional dumping, "difficult", demanding, identity problems, sensual, high-handed
Internal Attitudes
Feel Exempt, self-indulgent, dismissive, disdainful, contemptuous, self-pitying, envious, petulant, resentful
Desires
To be absolutely free to "be themselves"
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That they are ruining their lives, wasting their opportunities
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Deeply Alienated, self-inhibiting, mourning, morbid, self-neglecting, fatigued, dependent, accusatory, guilt instilling
Internal Attitudes
Hateful, emotionally blocked, ashamed of self, apathetic, detesting, confused, resentful, victim mentality, rationalizing
Desires
To reject everyone or anything that does not support their emotional demands
Fear
That they are cut off from others and from life (abandoned)
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Tormented, self-sabotaging, clinically depressed, self-mutilating, turbulent, volatile, aggressive outbursts, addictive, coercive
Internal Attitudes
Self-Rejecting, self-hating, guilt-ridden, tormented, seething, death obsessed, spiteful, cruel, enraged
Desires
To punish themselves (and, indirectly, others)
Fear
That their situation is hopeless—everything is futile
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Life-Denying, self-destructive, "broken down", crimes of passion, strangely calm, suicidal, annihilating, paralyzed
Internal Attitudes
Despairing, hopeless, desolate, feel defeated, utterly worthless, dissociated, feel victimized
Desires
To escape their crushingly negative self-consciousness
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they have lost their identity and personal significance
The Investigator
Social Role: The Expert
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Visionary, pioneering, profound, knowing, compassionate, enraptured, revolutionary, energetic
Internal Attitudes
Participating, immediately apprehending, comprehending, clear-minded, awed, trusting, non-attached
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they are separate from the environment (an outside observer)
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being helpless, useless, incapable, overwhelmed
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Perceptive, "smart", curious, aware, unusual, playful
Internal Attitudes
Observant, attentive, fascinated, unsentimental, objective, sensory acuity
Desires
Basic Desire: To be capable and competent (to have something to contribute)
Fear
Secondary Fear: That they are not smart enough: their perceptions are insufficient to give them confidence
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Innovative, original, skillful, inventive, creative, learning, communicative, tinkering
Internal Attitudes
Focused, exploratory, open-minded, patient, whimsical, independent, uncompromising, concentrating
Desires
Secondary Desire: To master something to gain confidence (to create a niche for themselves)
Fear
That they have nothing valuable to contribute (unprepared)
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Withdrawing, preparing, acquiring technique, collecting, studious, practicing, delaying closure, non-conforming, expert, dilettantish
Internal Attitudes
Conceptualizing, knowledgeable, encyclopedic, model building, abstracting, uncensored, uncertain, "fine tuning", analytic, acquisitive
Desires
To feel safer and more confident by retreating into their mind and imagination ("Tinker Toy")
Fear
That others will demand too much from them, their inner world will be threatened
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Preoccupied, interpreting, creating worlds, speculative, impractical, high strung, secretive, compartmentalized, offbeat, flighty
Internal Attitudes
Detached, minimizing, intense, agitated, ignoring needs, complexifying, absent minded, feel distant, indiscriminate
Desires
To shut out intrusions (by intensifying their mental activity)
Fear
That others are attacking their niche/competency
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Provocative, argumentative, scornful, antagonistic, contentious, prickly, far-fetched, subversive, insensitive
Internal Attitudes
Extreme, intellectually arrogant, distrusting, cynical, pessimistic, jumping to conclusions, stingy, avaricious, impatient
Desires
To scare off anyone who threatens their niche/inner world
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That they are never going to find a place in the world or with people
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Isolated, eccentric, unstable, rejecting, retreating, emptying, burn bridges, dissipated
Internal Attitudes
Nihilistic, devaluing, dark fantasies, feel besieged, guilt-ridden, no expectations, feel defenseless, impulsive
Desires
To cut off all connections with the world and people ("to hell with everything")
Fear
That the world is closing in on them
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Delirious, hallucinating, projecting, repelling, sinister, chronic insomnia, erratic
Internal Attitudes
Horrified, distorting, weird perceptions, highly schizoid, overheated/nauseous, resisting all help, manic-depressive
Desires
To endure their terrors (staring into the abyss)
Fear
That they can no longer defend themselves (from outside or inside influences)
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Self-Annihilating, psychotic breaks, deranged, suicidal, "autistic", annihilating, paralyzed
Internal Attitudes
Seeking Oblivion, imploded, split off, inner chaos, feel damned, panic stricken
Desires
To leave "reality," to cease all sensory input, to break away from their own consciousness
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they are helpless, useless, and incapable
The Loyalist
Social Role: The Stalwart
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Courageous, intrepid, indefatigable, synergistic, self-expressive, decisive, effortless
Internal Attitudes
Real Faith, self-affirming, independent, secure, positive-thinking, grounded, quiet mind
Desires
Self Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self—that they must rely on someone or something outside themselves for security
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being lost: without support and guidance
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Reliable, dependable, trustworthy, steadfast, "regular", careful, have foresight, prepared
Internal Attitudes
Vigilant, alert, engaging, identifying, faithful, trusting/questioning, bonding, likable
Desires
Basic Desire: To find security and support (to belong somewhere)
Fear
Secondary Fear: Of being unreliable, ungrounded, unprepared—that their anxiety will undo their security
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Cooperative, persevering, meticulous, craftsmanship, egalitarian, hard-working, thrifty, community builder, learners
Internal Attitudes
Committed, responsible, disciplined, practical, action-oriented, respectful, self-sacrificial, methodical, "stewardship"
Desires
Secondary Desire: To prove to themselves and others that they are solid and trustworthy
Fear
Of not being enough to create and maintain their security
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Investing, loyal, organizing, analyzing, troubleshooting, safeguarding, camaraderie, questioning, second guessing, performing
Internal Attitudes
Dutiful, obligated, "covering bases", insecure, seeking approval, convinced/doubting, attached to systems/beliefs, seeking orientation, competitive
Desires
To create and sustain support systems—to form alliances with others
Fear
That they cannot meet conflicting demands (of different allies or authorities)
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Defensive, evasive/defiant, passive-aggressive, testing, scrutinizing, indecisive, complaining, moody, tense, mind reading, chameleonic
Internal Attitudes
Cautious, suspicious, feel pressured, ambivalent, anxious, negative, skeptical, tense, grumpy, amnesia of success, image-conscious
Desires
To resist having any further demands or obligations placed on them (to assert themselves without appearing to do so)
Fear
That they will not be able to handle their mounting pressures (that their world is coming apart)
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Blaming, rash, imprudent, sarcastic, projecting, nay-saying, belligerent, fear-instilling, substance abuse, self-promoting
Internal Attitudes
Highly Reactive, cynical, pessimistic, stubborn, begrudging, partisan, biased, authoritarian/obedient, phobic/counterphobic, short-tempered, contemptuous
Desires
To vent their frustrations and find out where they stand with others
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That their actions have harmed their security
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Unreliable, unpredictable, "bad company", cowardly, jumpy, thrashing, self-defeating, non-communicative, connect/hide, untrustworthy
Internal Attitudes
Panicky, inferiority feelings, feel helpless, depressed, skittish, no confidence, dependent/rebellious, "tightly wrapped", unscrupulous
Desires
To have the protection of a stronger ally while asserting independence
Fear
That the little security they have left will be destroyed
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Hysterical, irrational, lashing out, fanatical, ranting, violent, scapegoating, erratic, addictive, self-humiliating, betraying
Internal Attitudes
Paranoid, hateful, desperate, anxiety-ridden, obsessive, conspiratorial, submissive/controlling, masochistic/sadistic, duplicitous
Desires
To bring their uncertainty and anxiety to an end by any means (to defend their remaining security)
Fear
That they will be punished for what they have done
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Self-Destructive, inviting disgrace, suicidal, dropping out, "skid row", heedless, vicious
Internal Attitudes
Self-Abasing, self-punishing, guilt-ridden, tormented, self-condemnatory, self-hating, sadistic
Desires
To escape punishment (and atone for their guilt)
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they are not able to survive on their own, they are abandoned
The Enthusiast
Social Role: The Energizer
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Satisfied, content, nourished, ecstatic, spiritual, truly free, joyful
Internal Attitudes
Appreciative, assimilating, receptive, bountiful, savoring, grateful, deeply satisfied
Desires
Self-Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they require specific objects and experiences to feel fulfilled.
Fear
Basic Fear: Of deprivation and being trapped in emotional pain
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Enthusiastic, free-spirited, spontaneous, happy, cheerful, eager, energetic, adventurous, outgoing
Internal Attitudes
Anticipating, stimulated, curious, responsive, quick, avid, fast learners, positive, resilient
Desires
Basic Desire: To be satisfied and content—to have their needs fulfilled
Fear
Secondary Fear: That their freedom and happiness will be lost, their needs will not be met
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Productive, practical, accomplished, gregarious, versatile, prolific, entertaining, multi-tasking
Internal Attitudes
Practical, self-confident, future-oriented, engaged, passionate, vivacious, bold, sense of abundance
Desires
Secondary Desire: To do those things which will ensure that they will have what they need
Fear
Of missing out on other worthwhile things and experiences (that what they have isn't enough)
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Consuming, seeking variety, experiencing, occupied/busy, excitable, talkative, connoisseur, stylish, epicurean, proselytizing
Internal Attitudes
Acquisitive, keep options open, pleasure-oriented, appetitive, sensation-seeking, worldly-wise, materialistic, trendy, pursuing happiness, driven
Desires
To increase the number of sources of stimulation (to do more)
Fear
That they will be bored or frustrated (and negative feelings will arise)
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Scattered, hyperactive, attention-grabbing, dilettantish, "winging it", outspoken, exaggerating, trouble with follow through, outrageous, opinionated
Internal Attitudes
Distractible, indiscriminate, uninhibited, thrill-seeking, irreverent, restless, tangential, superficial, frustrated with self, impatient
Desires
To keep themselves excited and occupied—to stay "up"
Fear
That the environment will not provide them with what they want ("scarcity thinking")
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Excessive, demanding, pushy, insensitive, wasteful, hedonistic, addictive, cavalier, perfectionistic
Internal Attitudes
Greedy, dissatisfied, jaded, callous, self-centered, hardened, denying guilt, repressing sadness, uncompromising
Desires
To get whatever they want immediately ("instant gratification")
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That their actions are bringing them pain and unhappiness
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Escaping, dissipated, abusive, rude, infantile, "causing scenes", debauched, corrupting, intolerant
Internal Attitudes
Insatiable, impulsive, irresponsible, extremely anxious, bitter, joyless, vindictive
Desires
To avoid their pain and anxiety at any cost
Fear
Of losing their capacity for pleasure and happiness (that they cannot enjoy anything)
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Reckless, erratic, unstable, unpredictable, out of control, sadomasochistic, cruel
Internal Attitudes
Manic (Depressive), acting-out, hysterical, heedless, death defying, "numb", obsessive
Desires
To do anything in order to feel something
Fear
That they have irreparably ruined themselves and their lives
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Paralyzed, burned out, tortured, wrecked, debilitated, punitive
Internal Attitudes
Overwhelmed, panic-stricken, claustrophobic, overloaded, trapped, condemnatory
Desires
To give up their struggle—to not go on anymore
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they are in pain and are deprived of what they need to be satisfied and happy
The Challenger
Social Role: The Rock
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Heroic, inspiring, truly strong, courageous, selfless, gentle
Internal Attitudes
Self-Surrendering, compassionate, merciful, forgiving, magnanimous, faithful, innocent
Desires
Self-Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that they must always be in control of their environment
Fear
Basic Fear: Of being harmed or controlled by others
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Strong, assertive, direct, resourceful, action oriented, tenacious, robust, realistic
Internal Attitudes
Self-Reliant, independent, strong willed, self-determining, resolute, impassioned, vigorous, "can do" attitude
Desires
Basic Desire: To protect themselves, to be in control of their own life and destiny
Fear
Secondary Fear: Of becoming weak or vulnerable—of losing their strength and independence
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Productive, leading, providing, constructive, challenging, championing, protective, have vision, tough decisions, empowering
Internal Attitudes
Practical, self-confident, self-mastering, honorable, authoritative, decisive, initiating, strategic, seeking justice
Desires
Secondary Desire: To prove their strength through action or achievement
Fear
That they do not have enough resources at their disposal to carry out their role as leader/provider
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Enterprising, hardworking, risk-taking, straight-talking, business-like, rugged, "street smart", intense, preparing
Internal Attitudes
Pragmatic, competitive, seeking advantage, shrewd position, "no nonsense", self-interested, driven, pumped up, uncertain
Desires
To acquire the resources they need
Fear
That others do not respect them or take them seriously
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Dominating, controlling, boastful/bossy, blunt, bluffing, big promises, demand loyalty, "dare-devils", secretive
Internal Attitudes
Willful, expansive, self-important, swaggering, proud, insistent, territorial, egocentric, preoccupied
Desires
To assert their centrality and importance (to be in control)
Fear
Of losing control of their environment (others are not backing them up)
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Intimidating, combative, threatening, unreasonable, forceful/aggressive, undermining, pushing limits, oppressive, provocative
Internal Attitudes
Confrontational, defiant, "chip on shoulder", bad tempered, contempt for weakness, cynical, lustful, repressing hurt, extreme
Desires
To pressure others to do what they want, to make others fall in line with their agenda
Fear
Red Flag Fear: That others are turning against them
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Dictatorial, "outlaw", violent, brutal, treacherous, untruthful, scheming, harsh, reclusive
Internal Attitudes
Ruthless, feel betrayed, antisocial, predatory, immoral, vengeful, hardening heart, cutting off
Desires
To survive, to protect themselves and stay in control at any cost
Fear
Of retaliation
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Terrorizing, rapacious, raging, devastating, over-extended, projecting
Internal Attitudes
Megalomaniacal, over-reaching, unrestrained, feel omnipotent, no boundaries, phobic
Desires
To be invincible, unassailable, invulnerable (without fear)
Fear
That their resources cannot hold out any longer
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
Destructive, murderous, monstrous, barbarous, ruinous, attacking, thrashing, psychotic
Internal Attitudes
Sociopathic, inhuman, cruel, remorseless, exploding rage, inner chaos
Desires
To destroy everything rather than be forced to submit or surrender
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: they are harmed and/or controlled by others
The Peacemaker
Social Role: Nobody Special
The Healthy Levels
Level of Liberation
External Behaviors
Indomitable, all-embracing, self-determining, dynamic, connected, independent, autonomous
Internal Attitudes
Self-Remembering, "present", awake, exuberant, serene, self-aware, alert
Desires
Self-Actualization: Lets go of their identification with a particular self-image, that their participation in the world is unimportant
Fear
Basic Fear: Of loss and separation (of being cut off from everything)
Level of Psychological Capacity
External Behaviors
Peaceful, relaxed, steady, stable, gentle, natural, easy-going, kind, "seeker"
Internal Attitudes
Unselfconscious, receptive, optimistic, humble, guileless, contemplative, impressionable, sensual, non-verbal
Desires
Basic Desire: To have inner stability ("peace of mind")
Fear
Secondary Fear: Of losing their peace of mind
Level of Social Value
External Behaviors
Comforting, mediating, supportive, healing, reconciling, level-headed, imaginative, synthesizing
Internal Attitudes
Unselfish, inclusive, patient, steadfast, forgiving, uncritical, unpretentious, "balanced"
Desires
Secondary Desire: To create and maintain peace and harmony in their environment
Fear
Of conflicts (internal and external)
The Average Levels
Level of Imbalance
External Behaviors
Agreeable, compliant, excusing, conventional, pleasant, "fitting in", respectable, loyal
Internal Attitudes
Self-Effacing, accommodating, idealizing others, sentimental, unquestioning, simplifying, philosophizing, discounting self, dutiful
Desires
To avoid conflicts (by acquiescing to others, "Inner Sanctum")
Fear
Of any significant changes/disruptions in their world
Level of Interpersonal Control
External Behaviors
Complacent, comfort-seeking, habitual, busy work, into routines, wool-gathering, puttering, "auto-pilot", defensive
Internal Attitudes
Disengaged, selective attention, passive-aggressive, unresponsive, resisting, unreflective, stoical, beliefs as defense, anxious
Desires
To maintain things as they are—to be undisturbed (out of the flux of life)
Fear
Of having to exert themselves in any way, of leaving their comfortable patterns
Level of Overcompensation
External Behaviors
Appeasing, ignoring, sins of omission, deflecting, suppressive, dismissing, "killing time", stubborn, belligerent
Internal Attitudes
Resigned, minimizing, unrealistic, indifferent, apathetic, wishful thinking, suppressing anger, "peace at any price", short-tempered
Desires
To downplay the importance of problems in their world
Fear
Red Flag Fear: Of being forced by reality to deal with their problems
The Unhealthy Levels
Level of Violation
External Behaviors
Neglectful, irresponsible, ineffectual, low-energy, addictive, "door mats", listless, highly resistant, unpredictable
Internal Attitudes
Repressed, unavailable, obstinate, stonewalling, willfully blind, depressed, feel powerless, anhedonic, panicky
Desires
To defend their illusion that everything is okay
Fear
Of acknowledging reality at all—particularly their own role in problems
Level of Delusion & Compulsion
External Behaviors
Disoriented, "shut down", helpless, depersonalized, amnesiac, confused, irrational
Internal Attitudes
Dissociating, complete denial, affectless, desolate, numb, lost, feel persecuted
Desires
To block out of awareness anything that could affect them
Fear
That what has happened cannot be undone—fear of reality itself
Level of Pathological Destructiveness
External Behaviors
"Disappearing", empty shells, fragmenting, wasted, inert, vacant, subpersonalities, self-punishing
Internal Attitudes
Self-Abandoning, catatonic, regressive, shattered, devastated, vacant, self-abasing
Desires
To eliminate their awareness (to save their illusions)
Fear
Basic Fear comes true: that they have become lost and separated from self and others